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Monday, March 21, 2011

Good Or Bad

What do you think makes a "good" or "bad" relationship?

5 comments:

  1. Well I'n my view that can be a tricky question because what may be "bad" to one may be ok to another and vice versa.. But I'm sure everyone can agree theres many but honesty, trust, and unconditional love can make a "good" relationship... "Bad"!? Well we all know... Lol

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  2. Good relationships I agree depend on honesty and trust as well as respect and friendship. I know I would like to be with someone who can be my significant other but at the same time will be my friend/companion. A bad relationship is pretty obvious to some but not all. Some people are so caught up in love or the idea of it that they accept bad behavior from the person thinking it's normal. Its not normal to be put down, to cry because someone u love hurt you, to lose sleep because someone is treating you like shit. In the end it's not worth it.

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  3. When a person is in a relationship and it's considered either "good" or "bad", people tend to compare and measure their current relationship to their previous relationships or what they want. When you're in a relationship, you have to live in the moment. You should like and love your partner for what they can and cannot bring to the table. Now if your partner does or doesn't bring it to the table then that's a different story. In some relationships, a couple might be happy with going to McDonald's whereas another couple might be happy going to a restaurant that's dimly lit with reservations made. People tend to learn from their previous relationships and take it to the next relationship, but what makes a "good" and "bad" relationship is what you make of it, what makes you happy, and what makes you comfortable.

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  4. A good relationship is one in which both individuals knew each other well, good and bad and decided they would enter the relationship accepting all the faults of the other person. A bad relationship is pretending you are all right with the person and then as time passes you try to change them and mold them into the person you always wanted them to be

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  5. I don't think a "good relationship" is one in which both individuals knew each other well, either good or bad, and decided they would enter the relationship accepting all the faults of the other person. Accepting one another faults in a relationship would make them good people, but the outcome of what they do would make them a good relationship.

    I agree with the "bad relationship" part because people that are in a bad relationship do pretend as if everything is okay when things really aren't, but that mostly relates to people who are manipulated and controlled. With the part about "as time passes you try to change them and mold them into the person you always wanted them to be" would most likely relate to someone who's a controller.

    Basically, a good and bad relationship is what a couple makes of it and accepts.

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