People only get back with their ex lover for three (3) reasons:
1) Either they miss/love what they had and want it back. (Want to make their wrongs right).
2) The relationship didn't reach its full potential the first time around. (Long distance/College/Too young)
3) They're too complacent and want to fall back into the arms of their ex lover instead of searching for someone new to be with. (Worse reason why a person should get back with their ex).
When a person tries to get back with their ex, it can be a difficult challenge. Old problems would occur at the beginning of the relationship, but they should never occur again.
It's natural for a couple's problems to re-occur when they're trying to get back together because the problems have to discussed and resolved before the relationship can move on, BUT neither person should dwell on the past. When someone begins to dwell on the past, the relationship will never work out.
In the process of getting back with an ex lover, a person has to do the 3 A's Acknowledge, Apologize, and Assure
1) A person has to ACKNOWLEDGE their mistakes. Acknowledge their mistakes by putting themselves in their partner's shoes to see how their partner felt after they did what they did to them.
2) Once a person acknowledges what they did wrong, now they have something to APOLOGIZE for and should. An apologize is a person acknowledging their mistake which was an accident.
3) After a person apologizes to their ex lover, they should ASSURE them that they will never do what they did to them again. They should realize how their partner felt when they did what they did and realize that they don't want their partner to feel that way again nor let it happen to themselves.
After following these three (3) steps and a couple decides to get back together, they should leave the past in the past.
The thing about getting back with an ex lover is that when people change, they only change a little bit. That's because they're accustomed to doing and behaving the way they have been their entire life. So, some things will change about them, but not everything.
In dating, everyone does something their partner doesn't like, but whether a person should stay with their partner or not is by the amount of things that are bearable vs. what's unbearable.
JUST KNOW THAT GETTING BACK WITH AN EX LOVER, HEARTS WILL EITHER BE STRONGER OR WEAKER. IT DEPENDS ON HOW THE RELATIONSHIP GOES.
People only get back with their ex lover for three (3) reasons:
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2) The relationship didn't reach its full potential the first time around. (Long distance/College/Too young)
3) They're too complacent and want to fall back into the arms of their ex lover instead of searching for someone new to be with.
(Worse reason why a person should get back with their ex).
When a person tries to get back with their ex, it can be a difficult challenge. Old problems would occur at the beginning of the relationship, but they should never occur again.
It's natural for a couple's problems to re-occur when they're trying to get back together because the problems have to discussed and resolved before the relationship can move on, BUT neither person should dwell on the past. When someone begins to dwell on the past, the relationship will never work out.
In the process of getting back with an ex lover, a person has to do the 3 A's
Acknowledge, Apologize, and Assure
1) A person has to ACKNOWLEDGE their mistakes. Acknowledge their mistakes by putting themselves in their partner's shoes to see how their partner felt after they did what they did to them.
2) Once a person acknowledges what they did wrong, now they have something to APOLOGIZE for and should. An apologize is a person acknowledging their mistake which was an accident.
3) After a person apologizes to their ex lover, they should ASSURE them that they will never do what they did to them again. They should realize how their partner felt when they did what they did and realize that they don't want their partner to feel that way again nor let it happen to themselves.
After following these three (3) steps and a couple decides to get back together, they should leave the past in the past.
The thing about getting back with an ex lover is that when people change, they only change a little bit. That's because they're accustomed to doing and behaving the way they have been their entire life. So, some things will change about them, but not everything.
In dating, everyone does something their partner doesn't like, but whether a person should stay with their partner or not is by the amount of things that are bearable vs. what's unbearable.
JUST KNOW THAT GETTING BACK WITH AN EX LOVER, HEARTS WILL EITHER BE STRONGER OR WEAKER. IT DEPENDS ON HOW THE RELATIONSHIP GOES.
Well said Terrance
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