A long distance relationship can be healthy due to the fact that distance makes the heart grow fonder. With that being said, a long distance relationship should be a maximum of 2 years with the intent to become a local relationship again. In those 2 years, each partner should visit one another regularly, talk regularly, surprise one another regularly, and go beyond their mental and physical ability to make their partner happy. A long distance relationship definitely has to be worked on because a person is not physically there to help their partner or just be there. Since a couple aren’t physically together, that’s why a person should have all access (24 hour availability, if necessary) to make the relationship work. In general, for a long distance relationship to last, a couple should communicate, compromise, and surprise one another (whether it’s gifts, cards, and/or visits) more often than not to keep the engine going in the relationship, so it doesn’t run out of gas.
I'm actually in a long distance relationship, my very first. My BF is in the military and will be gone for a year. I met him two weeks into his one month leave and although we havent had much time together, the time we did spend was the most amazing, eye opening experience. After being with him, I had no doubt that I was willing to wait for him. When you meet the right kind of guy you just know, and from the beginning I knew all the heartbreak I had gone through was all justification for meeeting him. I plan on seeing him for Christmas and New Years, to fly across seas and go somewhere I have never been. I had never learned how to be truly patient before in relationships, tending to rush things..but this time apart is forcing me to do just that. Learn to wait...Good things come to those who wait, and although the distance is so heartaching at times, I have a future together in one year to look forward to.
what if the other mate doesnt want to comprise? and they think that you just want to change them because you tell them that there is somethings they need to work on in order for the relationship to work and move forward.
Since everyone thinks and behaves differently, every relationship will have to compromise at one time or another whether they’re local or long distance.
A long distance relationship needs to compromise more with the fact that they’re not able to see each other regularly. When they talk, they should actually get to one know another that way when they do hangout, they’ll do something to their partner’s liking.
It depends on how long u will be apart. I don't think it will work if neither person has any plans of moving to the same area as the other person.
ReplyDeleteA long distance relationship can be healthy due to the fact that distance makes the heart grow fonder. With that being said, a long distance relationship should be a maximum of 2 years with the intent to become a local relationship again. In those 2 years, each partner should visit one another regularly, talk regularly, surprise one another regularly, and go beyond their mental and physical ability to make their partner happy. A long distance relationship definitely has to be worked on because a person is not physically there to help their partner or just be there. Since a couple aren’t physically together, that’s why a person should have all access (24 hour availability, if necessary) to make the relationship work. In general, for a long distance relationship to last, a couple should communicate, compromise, and surprise one another (whether it’s gifts, cards, and/or visits) more often than not to keep the engine going in the relationship, so it doesn’t run out of gas.
ReplyDeleteI'm actually in a long distance relationship, my very first. My BF is in the military and will be gone for a year. I met him two weeks into his one month leave and although we havent had much time together, the time we did spend was the most amazing, eye opening experience. After being with him, I had no doubt that I was willing to wait for him. When you meet the right kind of guy you just know, and from the beginning I knew all the heartbreak I had gone through was all justification for meeeting him. I plan on seeing him for Christmas and New Years, to fly across seas and go somewhere I have never been. I had never learned how to be truly patient before in relationships, tending to rush things..but this time apart is forcing me to do just that. Learn to wait...Good things come to those who wait, and although the distance is so heartaching at times, I have a future together in one year to look forward to.
ReplyDeletewhat if the other mate doesnt want to comprise? and they think that you just want to change them because you tell them that there is somethings they need to work on in order for the relationship to work and move forward.
ReplyDeleteEMI:
ReplyDelete1)Is this his first long distance relationship as well?
2)How often do you'll talk?
3)Where is he stationed?
4)Has he made any plans to see you?
5)How do you handle your heart ache?
Since everyone thinks and behaves differently, every relationship will have to compromise at one time or another whether they’re local or long distance.
ReplyDeleteA long distance relationship needs to compromise more with the fact that they’re not able to see each other regularly. When they talk, they should actually get to one know another that way when they do hangout, they’ll do something to their partner’s liking.