I feel it is important not to focus on who makes what in a relationship.
When you do focus on who makes what, you tend to start resenting your partner for not bringing enough to the table.
Money is always a touchy subject. No one wants to feel like they are pulling all the weight in a relationship. If you are feeling this way, try to express this to your partner and finds ways for them to help you more.
Focusing more on the good things your partner brings to the table instead of money is one way to look at it.
When a woman makes more money than her man, she shouldn’t throw it in his face that she’s making more money than him. Women tend to do that when a man is not “being a man”. Men are insecure and have BIG egos when it comes to making money. No man wants to know that he isn’t able to provide for his family and himself.
Men to Women:
When a man makes more money than his woman, he should take care of his priorities first. Men tend to spend priority money as disposable money. Also with men wanting to have it all, men should save money as well.
Overall, when a person is making a significant amount more money than their partner, they should first do what's right with the money for the relationship, and not throw it in their partner’s face that they’re not making as much money as them.
I feel it is important not to focus on who makes what in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteWhen you do focus on who makes what, you tend to start resenting your partner for not bringing enough to the table.
Money is always a touchy subject. No one wants to feel like they are pulling all the weight in a relationship. If you are feeling this way, try to express this to your partner and finds ways for them to help you more.
Focusing more on the good things your partner brings to the table instead of money is one way to look at it.
Women to Men:
ReplyDeleteWhen a woman makes more money than her man, she shouldn’t throw it in his face that she’s making more money than him. Women tend to do that when a man is not “being a man”. Men are insecure and have BIG egos when it comes to making money. No man wants to know that he isn’t able to provide for his family and himself.
Men to Women:
When a man makes more money than his woman, he should take care of his priorities first. Men tend to spend priority money as disposable money. Also with men wanting to have it all, men should save money as well.
Overall, when a person is making a significant amount more money than their partner, they should first do what's right with the money for the relationship, and not throw it in their partner’s face that they’re not making as much money as them.