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Sunday, June 5, 2011
Stay or Go?
When things get rough in a relationship and a person wonders should they continue being with their partner or not, what should a person ask themselves before continuing or ending the relationship?
I personally think a person should ask is the other worth fighting for , are they gonna benefit from the fight or is it a waste. If it's all worth the fight then go hard if not leave on the best terms possible
I don't believe that anyone is a waste. Unless you are being verbally or physically abused, there is always reason to stay. A relationship without problems isn't a relationship because both parties are avoiding confrontation, which is expected and aids in ur growth as a couple.
Before a person decides to stay or leave a relationship it is important to weigh the pros and cons. What were they getting in the relationship and what they feel the relationship was lacking. Sometimes, all a couple needs to do is communicate. Sitting down and talking out your problems helps both partners better understand where they stand. I think a person should never make a decision when they are feeling angry or upset.
You should try your very best to work out whatever issues you have before you walk away from your relationship. Nothing in life is easy; you must put in work to get results.
In the end its all about is the person truly worth being with and are you happy with them. Happiness can overweight almost anything. In my past relationships I've always thought to myself " does this girl make me truly happy at the end of the day", if not then I would question myself on why I am with her.
Every relationship whether it’s considered the best or the worst relationship in the world will go through ups and downs no matter what they’re faced with for the same fact that everyone has a different way of thinking. For that reason, it makes a couple have to understand one another if they want the relationship to work out.
When things get rough in a relationship and a person begins to wonder whether they should continue being with their partner or not, they should ask themselves 3 QUESTIONS:
1)Do I want better? 2)Will my partner do better? 3)Do I think I can get better?
When you ask yourself those questions, you’ll have the answer whether you should stay with your partner or not because nobody should be with anybody that would be a waste of their time.
First off, if you are basing your decision on whether or not your girl or man makes you happy you are in for a rude awakening. Nobody can give you complete happiness but you. Expecting someone to give you 100 percent of everything you need, want, and desire is ludacris. And what type of mentality is can I do better? What is better? No one is perfect and you have to be content with what you have. Working on a relationship is continuous and if people begin to realize that, divorce rates wouldn't be so high. That hollywood romance relationship is false advertisement.
Every relationship will go through ups and downs, so no relationship is perfect. In all reality, there is no such thing as complete happiness because having everything a person wants is not complete without someone to share them with. The "better" is what you deserve. Do you deserve better than what you’re getting is the question you should ask yourself. No one has to neither be content nor settle for something or someone less than their worth.
Questions to ask? Am I being psychically or mentally abused? Is it really that bad? Where do I see this relationship in 10 years? Would this person make a good parent to our children? Do we share the same morals? How is the sex? If this person were criple would you stay?
When things get rough in a relationship and a person wonders should they continue being with their partner or not, they should ask themselves “are they physically and/or mentally abused” and “how long are the problems going to last”, but all the other questions are only to be asked if the relationship is good.
If the relationship is bad, there’s no need to look into the future and see where the relationship would be in 10 years. If the relationship is bad, you should get out as soon as possible.
Just because two people have children together doesn’t mean that they have to be together. They can work together to raise their children, but even then, the parents should have their own relationship with the children.
When a relationship is rough, it means that it isn’t going well, so why would a person stay if it doesn’t get better or even ask themselves “would I stay if my partner wounds up cripple”. Whether a couple shares the same morals or not should be discussion and defined at the beginning of the relationship. At the beginning of a relationship, people learn about one another the most, so finding out about someone’s morals should be sorted out from what they tell people.
If the relationship is bad, why would you stay because the sex is good? How does sex determine whether you should be with your partner or not when you’ll have bigger problems? Sex is a want and human need in a relationship, but it’s not the #1 requirement to keep the engine running in a relationship.
Generally, when a relationship isn’t going as planned, you should try to get the problem(s) you may have resolved as soon as possible. If the relationship still doesn’t turnout as planned then you should discuss with your partner
1) What’s wrong. 2) What you want/need. 3) What it would take to get it/them.
I personally think a person should ask is the other worth fighting for , are they gonna benefit from the fight or is it a waste. If it's all worth the fight then go hard if not leave on the best terms possible
ReplyDeleteI don't believe that anyone is a waste. Unless you are being verbally or physically abused, there is always reason to stay. A relationship without problems isn't a relationship because both parties are avoiding confrontation, which is expected and aids in ur growth as a couple.
ReplyDeleteBefore a person decides to stay or leave a relationship it is important to weigh the pros and cons. What were they getting in the relationship and what they feel the relationship was lacking. Sometimes, all a couple needs to do is communicate. Sitting down and talking out your problems helps both partners better understand where they stand. I think a person should never make a decision when they are feeling angry or upset.
ReplyDeleteYou should try your very best to work out whatever issues you have before you walk away from your relationship. Nothing in life is easy; you must put in work to get results.
In the end its all about is the person truly worth being with and are you happy with them. Happiness can overweight almost anything. In my past relationships I've always thought to myself " does this girl make me truly happy at the end of the day", if not then I would question myself on why I am with her.
ReplyDeleteEvery relationship whether it’s considered the best or the worst relationship in the world will go through ups and downs no matter what they’re faced with for the same fact that everyone has a different way of thinking. For that reason, it makes a couple have to understand one another if they want the relationship to work out.
ReplyDeleteWhen things get rough in a relationship and a person begins to wonder whether they should continue being with their partner or not, they should ask themselves 3 QUESTIONS:
1)Do I want better?
2)Will my partner do better?
3)Do I think I can get better?
When you ask yourself those questions, you’ll have the answer whether you should stay with your partner or not because nobody should be with anybody that would be a waste of their time.
First off, if you are basing your decision on whether or not your girl or man makes you happy you are in for a rude awakening. Nobody can give you complete happiness but you. Expecting someone to give you 100 percent of everything you need, want, and desire is ludacris. And what type of mentality is can I do better? What is better? No one is perfect and you have to be content with what you have. Working on a relationship is continuous and if people begin to realize that, divorce rates wouldn't be so high. That hollywood romance relationship is false advertisement.
ReplyDeleteEvery relationship will go through ups and downs, so no relationship is perfect. In all reality, there is no such thing as complete happiness because having everything a person wants is not complete without someone to share them with. The "better" is what you deserve. Do you deserve better than what you’re getting is the question you should ask yourself. No one has to neither be content nor settle for something or someone less than their worth.
ReplyDeleteQuestions to ask?
ReplyDeleteAm I being psychically or mentally abused?
Is it really that bad?
Where do I see this relationship in 10 years?
Would this person make a good parent to our children?
Do we share the same morals?
How is the sex?
If this person were criple would you stay?
When things get rough in a relationship and a person wonders should they continue being with their partner or not, they should ask themselves “are they physically and/or mentally abused” and “how long are the problems going to last”, but all the other questions are only to be asked if the relationship is good.
ReplyDeleteIf the relationship is bad, there’s no need to look into the future and see where the relationship would be in 10 years. If the relationship is bad, you should get out as soon as possible.
Just because two people have children together doesn’t mean that they have to be together. They can work together to raise their children, but even then, the parents should have their own relationship with the children.
When a relationship is rough, it means that it isn’t going well, so why would a person stay if it doesn’t get better or even ask themselves “would I stay if my partner wounds up cripple”.
Whether a couple shares the same morals or not should be discussion and defined at the beginning of the relationship. At the beginning of a relationship, people learn about one another the most, so finding out about someone’s morals should be sorted out from what they tell people.
If the relationship is bad, why would you stay because the sex is good? How does sex determine whether you should be with your partner or not when you’ll have bigger problems? Sex is a want and human need in a relationship, but it’s not the #1 requirement to keep the engine running in a relationship.
Generally, when a relationship isn’t going as planned, you should try to get the problem(s) you may have resolved as soon as possible. If the relationship still doesn’t turnout as planned then you should discuss with your partner
1) What’s wrong.
2) What you want/need.
3) What it would take to get it/them.
work it out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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