Absolutely not....BEEN THERE DONE THAT...DOESNT WORK... CAUSES CONFLICT because... no matter how much your partner wants to believe they are not insecure or whatever, it bothers them. AND....the only thing you and your ex have in common is your past... move on to your future! - SOSA
I don't believe in burning bridges, but sometimes its necessary. However, if you had a real friendship with your ex, I don't see why you would throw it away for the sake of a new relationship. Your partner should be understanding when it comes to your past. Clearly that person was in your life first and because you didn't work out as a couple doesn't mean you can't be long term friends. But it depends on how mature everyone in the situation is.
Someone you dated in your past can still be your friend if you broke up on good terms. Meaning, you both just decided it wasn’t gonna work out (grew up) and you both went your separate ways, no hard feeling.
In order for your new partner to respect your friendship with you ex…your new partner should know about this person. You should not be sneaking around talking to this person behind your partners back.
There needs to be trust in a relationship…point blank!
You shouldn’t be going to dinner and hanging out with your EX without your partner. You shouldn’t be hanging out with them period…I guess I’m saying you can be friends like “hey how are you doing friends”….long time no hear from you…how’s life friends.”
If you’re EX doesn’t respect your new relationship…THEN ABSOLUTLEY NOT! There should be no kind of disrespect towards your new partner. If that happens…that friendship with your EX is officially done!
It also depends on how your partner fills about it. If they are not comfortable with the idea of you being friends with and EX, then that’s what it is. Respect your partner’s wishes and all will go well.
A relationship CANNOT be successful when a partner is still friends with their ex-lover. If an ex-couple has some type of relationship after they broke up, it should only be an associate relationship where they aren’t in constant communication with one another and for catching up basis only.
More often than not when an ex couple talks, it’s usually about reminiscing about their relationship, which can actually lead into temptation.
The past should stay in the past. When a couple breaks up it’s for a reason, so if a person is in a relationship then there’s no need to be friends with an ex-lover because it can only lead to confusion, problems in the current relationship, and temptation.
Absolutely not....BEEN THERE DONE THAT...DOESNT WORK... CAUSES CONFLICT because... no matter how much your partner wants to believe they are not insecure or whatever, it bothers them. AND....the only thing you and your ex have in common is your past... move on to your future!
ReplyDelete- SOSA
I don't believe in burning bridges, but sometimes its necessary. However, if you had a real friendship with your ex, I don't see why you would throw it away for the sake of a new relationship. Your partner should be understanding when it comes to your past. Clearly that person was in your life first and because you didn't work out as a couple doesn't mean you can't be long term friends. But it depends on how mature everyone in the situation is.
ReplyDeleteIt all depends, but yes, it can.
ReplyDeleteSomeone you dated in your past can still be your friend if you broke up on good terms. Meaning, you both just decided it wasn’t gonna work out (grew up) and you both went your separate ways, no hard feeling.
In order for your new partner to respect your friendship with you ex…your new partner should know about this person. You should not be sneaking around talking to this person behind your partners back.
There needs to be trust in a relationship…point blank!
You shouldn’t be going to dinner and hanging out with your EX without your partner. You shouldn’t be hanging out with them period…I guess I’m saying you can be friends like “hey how are you doing friends”….long time no hear from you…how’s life friends.”
If you’re EX doesn’t respect your new relationship…THEN ABSOLUTLEY NOT! There should be no kind of disrespect towards your new partner. If that happens…that friendship with your EX is officially done!
It also depends on how your partner fills about it. If they are not comfortable with the idea of you being friends with and EX, then that’s what it is. Respect your partner’s wishes and all will go well.
A relationship CANNOT be successful when a partner is still friends with their ex-lover. If an ex-couple has some type of relationship after they broke up, it should only be an associate relationship where they aren’t in constant communication with one another and for catching up basis only.
ReplyDeleteMore often than not when an ex couple talks, it’s usually about reminiscing about their relationship, which can actually lead into temptation.
The past should stay in the past. When a couple breaks up it’s for a reason, so if a person is in a relationship then there’s no need to be friends with an ex-lover because it can only lead to confusion, problems in the current relationship, and temptation.