I think that’s whats wrong with society as a whole nowadays.. Men and women have forgotten the roles they are suppose to play when it comes to who is the Predator and who is the Prey...lol. I don’t like how aggressive women have become or are expected to be. What happen to the man being the aggressor and pursuing the woman like gentlemen are suppose to do. Now men want women to make the first,second & third move. Plan the date and pay for it too..lol.. I tell people all the time I would never make it in this dating world today..lol.. In this new world, I'm still old school which means, No, I wont call you first... No, I wont be you a drink in the club... No, I wont ask you to dance...and No, I wont pay on the first, second or third date..lol
Yes, I will return that first call and Yes, I might be willing to treat on date four or five..lol but... I WOULD DEFINITELY NEVER EVER EVER EVER ASK FOR A MAN'S HAND IN MARRIAGE...lol..even if he was the last man ALIVE...lol
i feel another reason as to why woman do not approach men more regularly is also because of fear of rejection...men now a days are rather rude and if your not booty-licous or whatever then then will turn u away...not all men..but many
Women don’t approach men more regularly because women still want to feel like a lady and treated like one too.
If a woman was to approach a man, the conversation would be more flirtatious than romantic.
Also, if a woman was to approach a man, every man would ask themselves 3 questions:
1)Why me? 2)What does she want from me? 3)How often does she approach men?
In addition, women are afraid of rejection. When it comes to a man and a woman, it can be very hard for a man to say “no” to a woman that’s throwing herself at him, so if a man said “no” to a woman, she would probably feel embarrassed. She might also feel insecure about herself.
Lastly, men don’t like aggressive women. Men love to chase women and if there’s nothing to chase then he would feel as if there’s something missing between him and her.
I think that’s whats wrong with society as a whole nowadays.. Men and women have forgotten the roles they are suppose to play when it comes to who is the Predator and who is the Prey...lol. I don’t like how aggressive women have become or are expected to be. What happen to the man being the aggressor and pursuing the woman like gentlemen are suppose to do. Now men want women to make the first,second & third move. Plan the date and pay for it too..lol.. I tell people all the time I would never make it in this dating world today..lol.. In this new world, I'm still old school which means, No, I wont call you first... No, I wont be you a drink in the club... No, I wont ask you to dance...and No, I wont pay on the first, second or third date..lol
ReplyDeleteYes, I will return that first call and Yes, I might be willing to treat on date four or five..lol but...
I WOULD DEFINITELY NEVER EVER EVER EVER ASK FOR A MAN'S HAND IN MARRIAGE...lol..even if he was the last man ALIVE...lol
I think women don't approach men more because we still want to feel special...wanted.
ReplyDeleteWe want to be persued.
i feel another reason as to why woman do not approach men more regularly is also because of fear of rejection...men now a days are rather rude and if your not booty-licous or whatever then then will turn u away...not all men..but many
ReplyDeleteWomen don’t approach men more regularly because women still want to feel like a lady and treated like one too.
ReplyDeleteIf a woman was to approach a man, the conversation would be more flirtatious than romantic.
Also, if a woman was to approach a man, every man would ask themselves 3 questions:
1)Why me?
2)What does she want from me?
3)How often does she approach men?
In addition, women are afraid of rejection. When it comes to a man and a woman, it can be very hard for a man to say “no” to a woman that’s throwing herself at him, so if a man said “no” to a woman, she would probably feel embarrassed. She might also feel insecure about herself.
Lastly, men don’t like aggressive women. Men love to chase women and if there’s nothing to chase then he would feel as if there’s something missing between him and her.