I think people think there isn't anyone out there that would have all the qualities they are looking for so they just choose the closest thing to the person they are looking for and then try to change aspects of them to fit what they are looking for.
It seems easier, but it's not. It takes a lot of work and patients to try to change someone who can't really be changed.
People that try to change the person they’re with instead of getting with someone they want them to be “might” be in love with them, but are actually in love with control.
People that try to control other people are actually smart and know who they can control and get over on.
Controllers study their prey.
If it’s possible that a person can control someone an inch, they’ll try to control them a mile.
In addition, a controller also know that they may never find someone to be everything they want them to be, so they’ll try to mold the person they’re with to be who they want them to be.
I think people think there isn't anyone out there that would have all the qualities they are looking for so they just choose the closest thing to the person they are looking for and then try to change aspects of them to fit what they are looking for.
ReplyDeleteIt seems easier, but it's not. It takes a lot of work and patients to try to change someone who can't really be changed.
People that try to change the person they’re with instead of getting with someone they want them to be “might” be in love with them, but are actually in love with control.
ReplyDeletePeople that try to control other people are actually smart and know who they can control and get over on.
Controllers study their prey.
If it’s possible that a person can control someone an inch, they’ll try to control them a mile.
In addition, a controller also know that they may never find someone to be everything they want them to be, so they’ll try to mold the person they’re with to be who they want them to be.