I do not want to date someone who doesn't take care of his kids. It doesn't matter if he thinks it's unfair, he hates the mother or he disagree's with the judge.
I think a person that does not pay child support is not a person to pursue for a relationship due to not paying child support is not a responsible person.
I think if a person is not responsible enough to take care of his children, he may not be responsible in other areas. He would not be someone I would chose to date. How you treat your children, parents and friends are examples of how you would might decide to treat me.
Someone that is NOT paying child support is NOT datable. There are zero excuses for NOT paying child support. If a parent isn't able to pay child support then they should at least spend time with their child(ren). Nothing in the world should be more important than family.
When a person dates someone, they should look into the future with them. A parent that isn't paying child support shows that they irresponsible, not dependable, maybe not financially stable or cheap and not prioritize. In addition, due to NOT paying child support, they might have bad credit which could prevent the couple from living the "American Dream".
The most important thing about a parent NOT paying child support is NOT being there for their child physically nor financially which could be damaging to the child throughout their life.
How and why should a partner expect that it would be different, if they have a child with someone that's NOT paying child support.
Overall, whenever a parent has to pay child support, it often says that they're NOT in their child's life physically and if they aren't paying child support then they're NOT in their child's life financially either. Every child needs both parents in their lives. No mother can replace a father and no father can replace a mother. When a parent doesn't pay child support, it can affect their future relationships, their credit, and most importantly, their relationship with their child.
When a parent has to pay child support, it doesn't necessarily mean they are not in their childs life physically or financially.
There are many reason why a parent has to pay child support. It doesn't mean they dont spend time with their child/childen or support their children. One reason that I see alot is that the parents of the child do not get along and someone was just being spiteful.
I have found that many women take their childs father to court for child support even though the man has been taking care of his child since the child has been born. The mother to the child may feel she isn't getting enough money. So she goes to court to try to get more. But what ends up happening sometimes is that after they take them to court, they end up getting less than what they were initally getting without the courts involved.
Lol..interesting question. I say NO.
ReplyDeleteI do not want to date someone who doesn't take care of his kids. It doesn't matter if he thinks it's unfair, he hates the mother or he disagree's with the judge.
That could be me and my kids!
I think a person that does not pay child support is not a person to pursue for a relationship due to not paying child support is not a responsible person.
ReplyDeleteI think if a person is not responsible enough to take care of his children, he may not be responsible in other areas. He would not be someone I would chose to date. How you treat your children, parents and friends are examples of how you would might decide to treat me.
ReplyDeleteSomeone that is NOT paying child support is NOT datable. There are zero excuses for NOT paying child support. If a parent isn't able to pay child support then they should at least spend time with their child(ren). Nothing in the world should be more important than family.
ReplyDeleteWhen a person dates someone, they should look into the future with them. A parent that isn't paying child support shows that they irresponsible, not dependable, maybe not financially stable or cheap and not prioritize. In addition, due to NOT paying child support, they might have bad credit which could prevent the couple from living the "American Dream".
The most important thing about a parent NOT paying child support is NOT being there for their child physically nor financially which could be damaging to the child throughout their life.
How and why should a partner expect that it would be different, if they have a child with someone that's NOT paying child support.
Overall, whenever a parent has to pay child support, it often says that they're NOT in their child's life physically and if they aren't paying child support then they're NOT in their child's life financially either. Every child needs both parents in their lives. No mother can replace a father and no father can replace a mother. When a parent doesn't pay child support, it can affect their future relationships, their credit, and most importantly, their relationship with their child.
When a parent has to pay child support, it doesn't necessarily mean they are not in their childs life physically or financially.
ReplyDeleteThere are many reason why a parent has to pay child support. It doesn't mean they dont spend time with their child/childen or support their children. One reason that I see alot is that the parents of the child do not get along and someone was just being spiteful.
I have found that many women take their childs father to court for child support even though the man has been taking care of his child since the child has been born. The mother to the child may feel she isn't getting enough money. So she goes to court to try to get more. But what ends up happening sometimes is that after they take them to court, they end up getting less than what they were initally getting without the courts involved.