First, there is a reason your friend/family are meddling in your relationship..."BECAUSE THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE".
People have to be careful what they tell their friend and family about what is going on in their relationship. Some things should be private. They don't need to know everything. They don't need to know every time you have an arguement or disagreement. That will only make them look at your partner in a negative light.
Keep people out of your personal business!
If a friend feels they need to keep giving you advice on your relationship, you need to put them in their place and stop them in their tracks. You can be nice about it or not..it's up to you.
Tell them that you appreciate their advice or what have you, but it is not needed. If you ever need to talk to someone you know that you could come to them.
If they dont get it....just tell them to mind their business!
When a person's friends are meddling in their relationship, it often means they know too much about what's going on in the relationship.
Some things should be private between a man and a woman. A couple should never tell all the good that goes on in their relationship and they certainly shouldn't tell all the bad that goes on in their relationship either. When a couple starts telling their friends the good and bad that goes on in their relationship, that's when their friends start passing judgment.
There should be no more than 2 people that knows majority of a persons relationship.
Overall, a person has to limit what they say for a person NOT to meddle in their relationship. If a person happens to already know what might've took place and wants to talk about it then that person should be pulled to the side to talk about RESPECT in their friendship.
First, there is a reason your friend/family are meddling in your relationship..."BECAUSE THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE".
ReplyDeletePeople have to be careful what they tell their friend and family about what is going on in their relationship. Some things should be private. They don't need to know everything. They don't need to know every time you have an arguement or disagreement. That will only make them look at your partner in a negative light.
Keep people out of your personal business!
If a friend feels they need to keep giving you advice on your relationship, you need to put them in their place and stop them in their tracks. You can be nice about it or not..it's up to you.
Tell them that you appreciate their advice or what have you, but it is not needed. If you ever need to talk to someone you know that you could come to them.
If they dont get it....just tell them to mind their business!
When a person's friends are meddling in their relationship, it often means they know too much about what's going on in the relationship.
ReplyDeleteSome things should be private between a man and a woman. A couple should never tell all the good that goes on in their relationship and they certainly shouldn't tell all the bad that goes on in their relationship either. When a couple starts telling their friends the good and bad that goes on in their relationship, that's when their friends start passing judgment.
There should be no more than 2 people that knows majority of a persons relationship.
Overall, a person has to limit what they say for a person NOT to meddle in their relationship. If a person happens to already know what might've took place and wants to talk about it then that person should be pulled to the side to talk about RESPECT in their friendship.