I say no...that it should be more than just the person's appearance.
But I can understand how a person would feel that way. If they meet you skinny and you become extremely heavy,they could say they didn't meet you that way. That if they wanted a heavy person, they would have dated a heavy person. People have preferences. I can't knock that...but if you truly love someone it wont matter one way or the other.
A person should NEVER leave their partner because they've gained too much weight.
A person that leaves their partner because they've gained too much weight is shallow, selfish, insensitive, misusing, and never really loved their partner to begin with.
A person that leaves their partner because they've gained too much weight should understand that they didn't meet their partner fat and should understand that they're still the same person inside.
In addition, they should realize that their partner can always get back to their usual weight size with hard work and dedication instead of insults and put downs.
I say no...that it should be more than just the person's appearance.
ReplyDeleteBut I can understand how a person would feel that way. If they meet you skinny and you become extremely heavy,they could say they didn't meet you that way. That if they wanted a heavy person, they would have dated a heavy person. People have preferences. I can't knock that...but if you truly love someone it wont matter one way or the other.
A person should NEVER leave their partner because they've gained too much weight.
ReplyDeleteA person that leaves their partner because they've gained too much weight is shallow, selfish, insensitive, misusing, and never really loved their partner to begin with.
A person that leaves their partner because they've gained too much weight should understand that they didn't meet their partner fat and should understand that they're still the same person inside.
In addition, they should realize that their partner can always get back to their usual weight size with hard work and dedication instead of insults and put downs.